What Dreams Are Made Of

What Dreams Are Made Of

I have spent the last week planning a trip to Disney World. I am not going to give a ton of details about it, but I am getting so dang excited. I use to go all the time when I was younger, but I haven’t been in about 5 years and before that it was about 5 years. This is huge for our family in many ways, but I won’t go into all that. I just have been thinking a lot this week about dreams. Where do gather up the material to base our dreams upon. Dreams are made at Disney World, but where do they start. I mean you have to have the initial dream to GO to Disney, right? Just a small thought as I was editing. TOOTLES


Skin: Lara Hurley– Iza Lelutka head applier

Head: Lelutka- Simone

Eyes: IKON– Odyssey eyes in dusk

Body: Maitreya– Lara Mesh Body

Hair: little bones- Silence @ Uber

Outfit: Dead Dollz- Orion @ The Chapter Four

Shoes: Essenz– Sardinia


We’re All Mad Here

We’re All Mad Here

Today, I invite you to step into a world of magic and wonder… Where anything can happen and anything goes. Something will tickle your fancy during this adventure. So, sit down and have a cup of tea and prepare yourself for an event unlike any other that you have seen in Second Life. WeDo SL has really outdone themselves on this! Don’t just take my word for it… take the TP instead and enjoy your unique shopping experience. TOOTLES!

Care for Tea?


Skin: Swallow- Chrissy skin in peach Lelutka applier @ Alice in Sexyland (opens at 1PM SLT June 12th)

Body: Maitreya– Lara Mesh Body

Eyes: IKON– Sovereign eyes in Fjord

Hair: TRUTH– Amaris

Corset w/ shoes: Gizza- Alice Corset and heels @ Alice in Sexyland (opens at 1PM SLT June 12th)

Pose: Le Poppycock- Footnote A poses @ The Chapter Four

When Life Gives You Lemons

When Life Gives You Lemons

When life gives you lemon’s, make lemonade? ORRRRR I could use the lemons to throw at people to make myself laugh? I prefer apple juice honestly, but that isn’t really the point. The point is life just threw me lemons and I’m ticked! Not happy, but I can’t sit here and cry about things that didn’t happen the way I wanted them too. I think some people expect you to slowly move away from a situation that causes pain but I feel like it is best to just rip it off like a band aid. This being said… Welcome Tessa to the single life and here’s to finding out what SL will hold for me in the future. TOOTLES


Skin: Lara Hurley– Scarlett in dark

Head: TheMeshProject– classic deluxe w/ Scarlett applier

Body: Maitreya– Lara Mesh Body w/ Scarlett applier

Eyes: IKON– Sovereign eyes in Fjord

Hair: TRUTH– Celeste hair

Dress: LaVian&CO- Weather With You @ PENUMBRA SS Fashion Week 2015

Shoes: CandyDoll- Lauren in Banana @ The Chapter Four

Bench: Label Motion– Pastel Bench in Yellow

Doors: The Hive– Upcycled Spring Door Decor

Lemon Tree: O.M.E.N– The Smiling Garden Happy Lemon Tree

Greenhouse: 22769 ~ bauwerk– Voliere greenhouse

Happy One Year WordPress

Just this past few weeks I have been introduced to some new things in SL. All of them happen to be in these photos. {AIMI} skins, LIZIAAH, and boating. I can let you guess on which of these things I am more familiar with. Needless to say, this year has been full of new and amazing things. I wanted to put them all in this post because this marks my one year blogging on this wordpress account. I never imagined that I would stick with blogging this long. I think you really have to love it to stay with something for an extended period and I think blogging may be the only thing that I would keep doing for this length of time. I seem to always stay amazed and love everything that I have posted. I wouldn’t choose to show it off if I didn’t. Well I hope for another amazing year bringing you some of the newest and best designs and events in Second Life. TOOTLES!


Skin: {AIMI} – Emily Natural tone

Body: Maitreya– Lara mesh bdoy

Hair: MINA- Vera @ The Chapter Four

Jumpsuit: LIZIAAH– Gian Jumpsuit in Amarente

Bracelets: LIZIAAH– Bian bracelet in Amarenthe

Shoes: Poute- Honey High Wedges (slink high add on) @ Sneak Peak

My Dirty Little Secret

I am sure we have all heard of the SL Secrets website that has been posting, name calling, and dragging people through the dirt. Every week people post things anonymously about things they dislike in SL. When did SL become so important to do this for? Lately Facebook has become just as bad as this ugly website. People calling others out over drama and things that don’t really matter. In the long term… what will all of this accomplish? I see good people either sick over all of it or being sucked into it themselves. I hear reasons and all it sounds like is that WANK WANK sound that use to be on the old Charlie Brown shows. If you don’t know what I am talking about then just imagine, k? So here are my dirty little secrets before it ends up on fb or a some random website with some hateful people…

I am not perfect! That is my number one and really the only secret, which I guess isn’t a secret at all. No one is perfect and no one has the right to call ANYONE out on their stuff. Just because you feel you have a reason for it still doesn’t give you a right. I guess this could go for many things going on right now. If you aren’t on any of these social media sites then be thankful that you don’t have to read the drama going on, but this can still apply to anything that you do. You can see the wrong being done… you can learn from it and not do it yourself. You don’t HAVE to call someone out and you don’t have to choose to be bitter. I am preaching to myself as well because I have been just as bad before. I sometimes want people to see the error of their ways and I stick my foot in my mouth all the time. I am not perfect!!! There is a chapter in Matthew in the Bible that really has been a haunting stepping stone for me. It basically says do not point out the stick in someones eye when you have a beam in your eye. Basically stop being a dang hypocrite! Rise above and learn something from all of this. Be real and be who you are and not someone who is fake. Fake being pretending to be someone your not… fake also means being sweet in front of someone and then talking about them in private badly… fake can even mean that fake smile you put on because you don’t want anyone to know the truth of who you are or what your really doing. People seem to be very sneaky in SL and instead of guarding yourself to the point that your alone, it is best to just be open and trust until you have a reason not to. I am sure many think I am stupid for feeling that way, but it really has been the only way to move on from the hurt. Not everyone is out to hurt you and its the misfortune to come into contact with those that do hurt and cause pain. As I have heard someone say to me before… Do not let someone else define who you are as a person and do not lower yourself to something less because of someone else.

My take from is to drop the drama and move on.. learn to smile and be happy! Those who say they drop the drama but continue to post or make comments on it haven’t really dropped it at all.. you add fuel to the fire. Learn to have some respect for others opinions and take others feelings into consideration. It doesn’t hurt to have a little compassion even if others haven’t had it for you before. This isn’t an eye for an eye type of situation. Also, if you wonder why people do not want you involved in their company or doings in sl, then you should probably look and see what you are spewing. If all people hear are hateful mean rude things then of course they won’t want to associate with you! Learn from this and move on! I felt like adding my opinion of all this stuff on Facebook would only add even more fuel so I just posted it in my blog like everything else. I may want to also note that I am on cold medication and I can’t be held liable if all my words don’t make much sense. Just saying… TOOTLES!


Skin: Glam Affair- Amberly II in Jamaica @ The Chapter Four

Body: Maitreya– Lara mesh body

Lipstick: Pink Fuel– Red Essential Lipsticks

Eyes: {S0NG}– Chibi Cold Eyes

Hair: Magika– Lemon

Nose Ring: Soonsiki- New Age Septum Rings @ The Mens Dept.

Taking a Nap

Sometimes all a girl needs is to lay down and rest. I am not 100% able to rest though… I had to explain this a couple of times this week, but I can’t take naps. I have this horrible mood swing if I wake up from a nap and I get pissed off at everything. No one can do anything right even if they tried. It is for this reason that I just will not allow myself to rest enough to take naps even when I feel like I have the death flu! So, I pretended to take one in SL instead for this photo. I decided I would make it kind of like the movies. Ya know, where the girl is laying there and looking completely sexy after being asleep all night and she wakes up like an angel… when in reality she has drool on your chin and pillow and her hair looks like a rats nest. I couldn’t imagine actually falling asleep in something like this, but it is fun to dream! Dreams can be played in SL all day long. Just a fun bit of info about me for the week… TOOTLES


Skin: Glam Affair – Amerly II Jamaica @ Chapter 4

Body: Maitreya- Lara Mesh Body (no shape editing in photo)

Hair: Entwined- Electra in Light Browns @ We ❤ Roleplay

Corset: .Enfant Terrible.- Ems Corset in Plum @ We ❤ Roleplay

A New Chapter

It has been a week of closing and opening new chapters in my life, so I felt it was only accurate to blog some items from The Chapter Four. The brand new January round of The Chapter Four started yesterday, which happened to be my very first day at my new home for the next year. Thanks to the military, my family has to pick up and move and be apart for another year of our lives. This is nothing new; however, it has certainly made me feel slightly crazy for the past couple of months. Please forgive me if I have not really seemed like myself… but I have also made some pretty important decisions during this time that I do not and will never regret. One of these has been to begin to limit my blogging. I want to blog what I love as I see it… I do not like feeling confined to a certain way or style. I also do not have the time any longer as a “single” parent with full time classes and a job to blog as I have done so in the past. Please be patient as I figure out what times and schedules will fit my new lifestyle the best. Hugs you to all and I hope you have had a fabulous start to your new year 🙂 TOOTLES


Skin: Glam Affair- Amberly II in Jamaica 3,4 @ Chapter 4

Body: Maitreya Mesh Body- Lara

Dress: Gizza- Natalie outfit in Lace @ Chapter 4

Hair: MINA- Vera in light brown @ Chapter 4

Words break like Ice

I wanted to take a moment… and vent a tad. I mean that is what this blog is about. Most probably don’t read what I write and that is perfectly fine. Maybe the right person will read it and it will change something that might happen to them. Either way I will say my peace because I feel this is just a growing issue….

We all know that SL can be full of rotten and hateful people who are miserable in their RL and want to come to SL to make others seem just as low as they are while raising their spirits a tad. I am not talking about your “selfish” moments. I am talking about people who aim at making others feel low. I have witnessed this a few times recently, more than I would like to see. Between the horrible griefing going on at the Belleza sim, to hateful words being spread on FB and in world making fun of others due to how they choose to play this game called Second Life. I just wanted to remind everyone that this is suppose to be the holiday season where you make others feel happy and try to lift spirits. Not everyone is going through the same thing that you are and not everyone will understand you; however, this does not give you the right to treat others with such disrespect. I will write more about this subject later, but I just wanted to throw it out there… to remind others to be kind and generous especially during this time. I am being vague because I will choose to share my story and reasons for comments at a time when I can be more clear on them.

Please think about your actions and words… you never know who you could hurt by your joking or games. They can break a person’s self esteem like an icicle shattering when falling off a tree. TOOTLES


Skin– Belleza- Yasmin

Hair– Magika- Beans

Dress– .::Dead Dollz::.- Althea gown in pink @ Winter Trend 2014

Pose– Le Poppycock- Loose Ends poses @ The Chapter Four

Sensible Clutter

 Between shopping at Rock Your Rack this past week, I have had the pleasure of hitting up The Chapter Four, Arcade, and now Hello Tuesday to complete my shopping week! I love the monthly, bi monthly, and weekly events in SL and I hope to always show you some of my favorite items. I have been in the mood to basically lose myself in my shopping trips.. there will be plenty more this week trust me. Also, at the end of the week the Jewelry Fair will begin as well and I have seen some of these items… you do not want to miss this! TOOTLES



Skin– Lara Hurley – Ivy in natural tan

Eyes– IKON- Spectral Eyes in Nymph

Hair-Clawtooth- Fade into you in dreamy red @ Arcade 

Jumpsuit– .:Senso:. Dungaree shorts and top w/ lola appliers @ Rock Your Rack

Jewelry- Cae- Rainy Days necklace @ The Jewelry Fair beginning Sept 13th

Shoes– Essenz- La Paz in limited blue color ONLY @ Hello Tuesday 

Props- Different objects from Chapter Four and Arcade


There are so many great events going on so just a reminder that you have a less than a week to head to the current round at Cosmopolitan Sales room… A ton of goodies and seriously more Slink shoes than I can count… Every time I turned around there is another pair of shoes and it is like heaven 🙂 ! Please take a moment to run to the room and take a look for yourself! TOOTLES


Skin– Lara Hurley – Ivy in natural tan

EyesIKON– Spectral Eyes in Nymph

HairExile– You’ve Got The Love in light reds

Dress– [Aphrodisiac]- Solid crop top and heart high shorts (cute azz applier used) @ Cosmopolitan Sales Room

Jewelry- .Atomic.- {Unicorn Horn} necklace @ The Chapter Four

Shoes– EMPORIUM- Mobscene shoes in white (high slink add on) @ Cosmopolitan Sales Room

Pose– Le Poppycock- Afterglow @ The Chapter Four