Do Your Eyes Deceive you

Do Your Eyes Deceive you

If what you see by the eye doesn’t please you, then close your eyes and see from the heart. Because the heart can see beauty and love more than the eyes can ever wonder.

Credits:

Skin: Swallow– Roberta TMP head applier

Body: Maitreya– Lara Mesh Body

Eyes: Buzz– Bewitched eyes in ocean

Hair: Tableau Vivant- Upsidedown @ The Arcade

Shoes: Essenz- Lyon @ The Body Modification Expo

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She Took a Breath and Let it Go

She took a deep breath and let it go

Welcome to a sensual kinky event that you probably have been missing all these months! Most of us have heard about the ROMP fair that went on last year. I am sure that a lot of you have seen the ROMP signs around different events or sims and even seen the name come up before. I seemed to keep looking for a ROMP event but could never quite find out much information about it until today. The main reason why is because I was always so early or so late for this… ROMP happens once a month for only FOUR DAYS!!! This month the even will be happening from June 12th- June 15th. Please do not look for a specific place to find everything in one area. The great thing about ROMP is that it places you into each of the mainstores of these amazing designers. You not only get to see what is on discount for ROMP, but you also get to see what else the designer might offer for you that you had no idea you needed. Yes… NEEDED! Please do not miss out on these sexy yet sophisticated items on a discount. This sexy number by Salt and Pepper will be on sale for this weekend for 199L for each color and 599L for the fatpack. That is a savings of 100L for single colors and 200L for the fatpack. To me, you might as well just buy the fatpack! You never know which color you are going to need or want when you want some leather and chains. Here is a list of the designers you will be seeing this round and I invite you to also check out the ROMP blog so that you can keep updated yourself. There is also an update group in world that you can join to receive information and a Flickr group to see vendor and blog photos. Happy shopping and TOOTLES!

Designer List:

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AP.PAREL
Artisan Fantasy
!bang
Bounce This
Cae
CerberusXing
Chop Shop
Constraint
elymode
FemmeFatale
Forever Famous
.Infiniti.
lunaBeam
Luxuria
Roawenwood
Salt & Pepper
sYs

Credits:

Skin: Lara Hurley– Scarlett in dark

Head: TheMeshProject– classic deluxe w/ Scarlett applier

Body: Maitreya– Lara Mesh Body w/ Scarlett applier

Eyes: IKON– Sovereign eyes in Fjord

Hair: Exile– Windsong

Wings: AITUI- Mechnical Wings in industrial silver @ The Arcade

Top and Skirt: Salt and Pepper– Dylan @ Romp Monthly

Poses: an lar poses- The Kneeled Series @ We ❤ RP 

What Happened to Alice?

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A new event is coming our way this week and you gotta get ready for it. The amount of sexy that will fit into one sim will be tested to the limits. I am really not joking here! Alice in Sexyland is being organized by WeDoSL events, so you know this is going to be out of this world! Maybe… all the way to Wonderland if you keep looking through the designers long enough. This is a twist off of the usual Alice in Wonderland outfits that are around the grid and I have to say, I am thrilled with this theme. I am having an extremely hard time picking what to show and when. I am just hoping that I am able to post every day to bring it to you! Prepare yourself… TOOTLES!

Alice in Sexyland

Credits:

Skin: Lara Hurley– Scarlett in dark

Head: TheMeshProject– classic deluxe w/ Scarlett applier

Body: Maitreya– Lara Mesh Body w/ Scarlett applier

Eyes: IKON– Sovereign eyes in Fjord

Hair: TRUTH- Damaris @ The Arcade

Dress: ANOIRCRE- Fable dress in pink @ Alice in Sexyland (begins June 12th)

Pose: HelaMiyo- Sorry what @ Alice in Sexyland (begins June 12th)

Nothing Left but…

You say you love me, you say you care...

Emptiness. That is all that is left when little white lies are told to make someone feel better. The question though is who does this make feel better? It certainly isn’t just the one who the lies are being told to. Everyone has told a white lie in their lifetime and probably in the last week if you really think about it. What bothers me is when those lies build and build until it becomes something that is way out of control. I seem to worry about the white lies more than I should. You know, when you tell someone oh yeah that looks great on you and you just say it because if you told them they looked like crap it would hurt their feelings so you just say something polite. Sounds bad huh? Yeah well this has happened to me a few times. No one decided to tell me the truth which would have been a heck of a lot better in the end. I mean does anyone really want to be lied to? What you may not realize is that your white lie actually does hurt someone…and when they build it ends up being i love you and i wont ever leave you and then BAM next thing you know it was all pointless and your left with nothing.

Nothing left but..

I have been thinking about the nothing portion of this as I have been going out to meet people. I have been given one empty promise or comment after another and I got to thinking does anyone actually mean what they say? For example, I was out again the other night and met a guy who told me I was beautiful and so sweet and blah blah.. didn’t know me at ALL! He then tells me a couple of days later that he met this women who was…. and then he proceeded to give the SAME example of what he thought of her that he did me. I was curious of the wording so I went back to look at chats. Sure enough! Not like I really was worried about this, but I do worry if he does give these lines to some lady who actually believes him. What does a person get out of bring so full of it… I mean really?!?! So, I think this is a good reason for me to hide in the shadows most of the time. It is hard being mostly an introvert and having to force yourself out there when you know things like this happen. Maybe a slight fear for myself. Oh you mean you didn’t know I was really an introvert? Yeah well I prefer to usually be alone and writing like this to me is just like writing a journal for myself. I don’t think too much on who reads it. Anyway, getting way away from my intent of this post. TOOTLES!

Credits:

Skin: Lara Hurley– Scarlett in dark

Head: TheMeshProject– classic deluxe w/ Scarlett applier

Body: Maitreya– Lara Mesh Body w/ Scarlett applier

Eyes: IKON– Sovereign eyes in Fjord

Hair: TRUTH- Gilda @ The Arcade

Tattoo: Reckless- Haze @ Uber

Dress: Entice- Diamond dress in red @ Designer Showcase

Shoes: AnaMarkova- Mya Heels in Onyx @ Designer Showcase

Furniture in first photo:

Couch: Trompe Loeil– Alyce Bench leather white

Rug: REDGRAVE– Jonas Rug

Flowers: keke– paeons and magnolias set pink

What tickles your feet?

What tickles your feet... ermm fancy?

First, I need to inform everyone that Designer Showcase has now moved! You may want to mark that down in your landmarks so that you have the current location. Second, The Arcade is open and is FABULOUS! Good luck getting in but if you want to hit up yard sales you have that option as well. I think I might end up doing both!

On another note, I have planned on starting to describe what I would call encounter disasters. Maybe not all of them are disasters, but they are interesting and I get a kick out of some of the random weird things that are said to me during first hello’s and first dates. I thought about writing about the first date the other night where the guy obsessed over his hair for 2 hours. I think I saw every hair on the grid just standing there watching him change. My eyes crossed! I think it might be a little more appropriate to tell you about a first encounter. I wasn’t really expecting much to happen this night; however, I decided to head out to Frank’s Place Jazz Club. I went to the free club because honestly there are single (or claims of being single) people there who actually will talk or ask you to dance. At the paid portion of Frank’s Elite it ends up being a ton of couples and all smooches which sorry…. I am not that sappy! Anyhow, I was sitting there talking to a some friends who are just great. We were all smiles and laughing and then just when the white undies turn into the white flag of surrender, the message of the night comes along.

I received a rather polite response from a man who was actually wearing a mesh suit and seemed to try to take care of himself as best as possible. I say this because it seems to be rare here as well. No, I am not being snobby, it is just nice to appreciate someone who tries to look nice. The first few comments were a polite hello and a message that he was just looking through my Flickr and liked what he saw but that he had a question for me. He asked… randomly… if I had a shoe fetish. This was by far the most interesting first question that I have received in a long time. As I explained that I was a blogger and sometimes I like to include just a shoe photo… that wasn’t a good enough answer apparently! He then began to explain that my photos were disconcertingly sexy… oh hell, I will just post this and leave this here for you to read….

XXX: the way you take those pics is disconcertingly sexy

Tessa Rosca (tessagrace51): slight foot fetish yourself? lol

XXX: it’s a fair question… the truth is I really don’t know if I do or not. I don’t think I have a typical foot fetish but I do find female feet and legs attractive. I wish I didn’t though

Tessa Rosca (tessagrace51): hm you wish you didn’t? As in you wish that they weren’t female or that you had an attraction to another body part?

XXX: lol I wish I had no reaction to those body parts. Let me give you an example of what I mean…

XXX: your 1st life picture is awesome. It’s very sexy but at the same time it’s not explicitly sexual There is a subtlety to it, which is something missing in a lot of SL photography. I can look at it, make these observations and appreciate it without having any undue reaction. On the other hand some of the pictures in your flickr I feel like I have a disproportionate reaction to. After all they are just pictures of pixels and in many of them you’re wearing more than in your 1st life pic

Tessa Rosca (tessagrace51): that is a very interesting observation. The reason may be that I did not actually take the photo in my first life pic. It was done by a friend. Im not sure what the difference is in the flickr photos as opposed to that one really.

Tessa Rosca (tessagrace51): and here I thought you might just offer to buy me shoes to relieve some of the pressure there lol

XXX: lol

XXX: do you mind if I ask you a purely hypothetical question about that scenario?

Tessa Rosca (tessagrace51): lol go for it

XXX: hypothetically if I had bought you shoes which you were wearing and showing them off for me. If you could tell that you were arousing me, would that be arousing for you?

Tessa Rosca (tessagrace51): hm this is a rather interesting hypothetical

Now, I will stop the conversation here because the rest was just kind of… blah! This was basically the root and ending of the conversation which shouldn’t come as a surprise. I have two take away’s here. First, Do not try to act like your some kind of upstanding guy who just doesn’t do sexual things in SL. I have met… TWO men who actually aren’t interested in things like this. I felt like he was somewhat trying to be shy but come on.. you start off asking a women about a shoe fetish? The second thing that I took away… was that I take more photos of my legs and shoes that I realized. OOPS! Live and learn right?

Well for my first relationship/dating/encounters post I think i went rather well. I might tell you about the guy wanting the sex train later but I needed to start off a little soft. 😛 TOOTLES!

Credits:

Skin: Lara Hurley– Scarlett in dark

Head: TheMeshProject– classic deluxe w/ Scarlett applier

Body: Maitreya– Lara Mesh Body w/ Scarlett applier

Eyes: IKON– Sovereign eyes in Fjord

Hair: TRUTH- Damaris @ The Arcade 

Top: U.Refined- Sassy chained top in teal @ Designer Showcase

Capris: Blueberry– Rolled Cuff Jeans curvy

Shoes: Lybra!- Arlie in natural (high slink add on) @ Designer Showcase

Took a Siesta

Took a Siesta

I am not sure if any of my readers follow me on Facebook and such, but I posted a few days ago that I wouldn’t be back to blogging till Tuesday because of some important real life thing that was going on. Those RL things were my sons birthday and saying goodbye to my husband who is deploying. There were many ups and downs. Happy time with family and friends knowing that there were two reasons that we all gathered together. A celebration and a goodbye. I am still recovering from the events of this weekend, but I wanted to at least get my mind off of things and bring you something that I am very passionate about…. SL fashion. The FashionArt event is still going on and you can still run over and grab up all of these artist inspired outfits. I had a lot of fun playing with this photo. I think it is definitely my therapy from everything going on. If you find that photography or shopping happens to be your therapy as well… then head on over and get your shopping on! TOOTLES

Credits:

Skin: Lara Hurley– Fae

Head: TheMeshProject– Classic Deluxe head

Body: Maitreya– Lara Mesh Body

Eyes: IKON– Charm Eyes in Industrial

Hair: Clawtooth- La Bella Donna #16 @ The Arcade 

Dress: Dead Dollz- Viva la Frida @ FashionArt event

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Logic vs. Imagination

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“Logic will get you from A to B. Imagination will take you everywhere.” – Albert Einstein

I have blogged most of my blogging life with logic. Thinking what will a designer want to see and what will readers want to see. In fact, if I look even deeper into my RL… everything is with logic. I think about every single detail of my life before it gets to that point because I love to be prepared. I always think what is the point if you aren’t prepared. Imagination kind of hasn’t been that big a part of my life.. until recently. The amount of imagination that it takes to put into most blog posts plus into normal photos is just draining. I took 3 weeks off to be in RL with my family for vacation and it was a very eye opening experience. The imagination kind of stayed on vacation I think because I feel like I have hit a brick wall with things. More will come soon… when I figure things out with logic… but I want to go everywhere… not just a straight line to what I have had planned. Strength will overcome 🙂 Here is to hoping I get back on track soon! TOOTLES

Credits:

Skin– Belleza- Yasmin

Eyes– IKON- Hope eyes in Nymph

Hair– MINA Hair- Selenia @ The Arcade

Jacket– [ Infliction ]- Proper Jacket @ Winter Trend 2014

Pants- [Foxes]- chromatic bubble leggings

Shoes– [Renegade]- Lucy white snowflake for slink high feet @ Winter Trend 2014

Let it Snow Fashion

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I have been a very good girl this year… relatively good… ok maybe not at all, but regardless I look FABULOUS this holiday season thanks to my visit to the Winter Trend fair. A girl couldn’t ask for this kind of selection and receive anything as amazing as this. Two full sims to explore and buy from some of your favorite designers, which is just what I did. I hope you go check out the fair before it ends on the 19th. You can’t miss this! TOOTLES

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Credits:

Skin– Belleza- Yasmin

Eyes– (*ANGELICA)- Watery eyes in brown @ Winter Trend 2014

Hair– .Olive.- the snow princess hair in lipstick @ The Arcade

Dress– *Fishy Strawberry*- Belted Tunic in Onion @ Winter Trend 2014

Scarf– B BOS- Bir Scarf in Grey @ Winter Trend 2014

Leggings– FY- Zipped Jeggings in black

Earmuffs- Maxi Gossamer- Furry Muffs in black @ Winter Trend 2014 

Shoes– Essenz- Vancouver gacha @ Winter Trend 2014

Pose– *EverGlow*- Frost poses @ Winter Trend 2014