Done Gone and Done It

Done Gone and Done It

I received a very disturbing message earlier this evening about a friend who was being harassed by someone on Facebook. A few of my close friends know that I work for a health and wellness company called Plexus. I absolutely LOVE it! It gives me the opportunity to help so many people. This friend who messaged me also works for Plexus and had sold some to a member of a fellow group they were both a part of. This was a mothers group of large families. Needless to say… it got ugly. This person took Plexus for a week and expected crazy results. When she didn’t receive instant results she decided to take to this Facebook group and blast this person all over media and tried to ruin any credibility that she had earned. I was a little beyond mad, because no one ever claimed she would lose weight let alone lose weight in a week. She was only eating 900 calories and mostly only fruit and veggies which are empty calories. Barely any protein. It doesn’t take a genius to realize she wasn’t doing this correctly, but I think there might be a slight eating disorder in there somewhere because after the week of people trying to tell her she can’t do this to herself she didn’t get it and go made and I guess was looking to lash out because she was upset it didn’t work.

Why am I telling you all this? Just like my friend who needed to message me to vent about how she was being treated… I need to vent as well. I obviously can’t vent to this friend, because I feel like me venting to her about how its ridiculous will only fuel her fire to be upset even more. I had to play the calming friend when all I wanted to do was blast this girl for being nuts. Every behavior I had seen has pointed to the crazy house and I had to just vent somewhere. Taking deep breaths wasn’t working. This was all on RL Facebook, so please no one think this is about someone that we all might know lol. I feel better at least! TOOTLES

Credit:

Skin: Pumens– Manuela TMP mesh head applier

Body: Maitreya– Lara Mesh Body

Eyes: IKON– Sovereign eyes in glass

Hair: TRUTH– Morgana

Dress: Salt and Pepper- Leah dress @ Sad November

Shoes: Essenz- Baltimore @ The Gacha Garden

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Are your big boy pants in the wash?

Are your big boy pants in the wash?

Lately there has been a lot of drama on Facebook. I have sat back for the past week with a bowl of popcorn watching the show unfold as if I could just read every detail of each persons side of things because that is how detailed some of the posts and comments were. I do not deal with these people personally, and reading all of this has made me thankful that I mostly like to stay alone. What reason would even motivate me to mix with people who could potentially go off at a moments notice. I have found that Second Life is full of people who use others to gain something. I have found that Second Life is full of crazy people who make false claims to gain pity. I have found that Second Life is full of mentally ill people who only claim to have an issue when something doesn’t go their way. Otherwise it is all smiles right? I do know that there are good people in Second Life. I have met quite a few of them, but I am certainly not motivated to make new friends because of all the drama. Take a little note and stop venting every little issue you have with someone on Facebook. It is a tad ridiculous! It is one thing to vent about a situation and another to call people out and have back and forth statuses about someone because you want to out them or whatever the case may be. I am speaking on about 5 different “fights” I have witnessed just in the last week. Also, if something doesn’t go your way show some grace… and maybe get out of Second Life for a while to gain some sort of perspective. Making something of yourself in a virtual world means absolutely nothing. You may claim that it means something to you and it would mean the world and blah blah blah… In reality, your success is based on you sitting in front of a computer. It’s really nothing. Your much needed “SLebrity” status is null and void because it means nothing. Put your big boy pants on and get over it and move on. There is only so many times that someone can “cry wolf” on being slandered or hurt or taken advantage of before it becomes a spectacle. Rant over… TOOTLES!

Credits:

Skin: Pumens– Manuela TMP mesh head applier

Body: Maitreya– Lara Mesh Body

Eyes: IKON– Sovereign eyes in glass

Hair: TRUTH- Foxy @ Uber

Shirt: Wicca’s Wardrobe- Daria Vest @ FAD Event

Pants: Wicca’s Wardrobe- Yves Pants @ FAD Event

Shoes: CandyDoll- Jennie in Chocolatte @ Collabor88

Black as the Devil

Black as the Devil

Black as the devil, hot as hell, pure as an angel, sweet as love.

Charles Maurice de Talleyrand

Credits:

Skin: Pumens– Manuela TMP mesh head applier

Body: Maitreya– Lara Mesh Body

Eyes: IKON– Sovereign eyes in glass

Hair: Wasabi Pills– Sharon

Hat: LODE– Nikola hat

Jewelry: Yummy– Pearl and Diamond set

Lingerie: Dead Dollz- Provocateur @ The Epiphany

Shoes: Essenz- Murcia @ Wayward Halloween

When the going gets tough…

When the going gets tough...

The tough slink into their beds and sleep instead of worry about other things. I would like to think this is what tough people do, but I am far from it so it may be more accurate to say that when awkward weird people get in a pickle they hide in their room till it’s over. I am hiding from RL in SL which is basically the same thing right? TOOTLES

Credits:

Skin: Pumens– Manuela TMP mesh head applier

Body: Maitreya– Lara Mesh Body

Eyes: IKON– Sovereign eyes in glass

Hair: Magika– Empty Gold

Necklace: Maxi Gossamer- Esmeralda Gypsy necklace @ FaMESHed

Corset: CandyDoll- Rebecca corset in blue @ Collabor88

Panties: Glitzz– Lady Black

Shoes: CandyDoll- Jessy in Denim @ FaMESHed

Old Witch Mary

Old Witch Mary

Old witch Mary, quite contrary,
How does your garden grow?
With moss and slime,
and poisonous vine,
and toadstools all in a row.

Credits:

Skin: Pumens– Manuela TMP mesh head applier

Body: Maitreya– Lara Mesh Body

Eyes: IKON– Sovereign eyes in glass

Hair: Eaters Coma– Hair 65 in Mocha

Dress: Salt and Pepper- Chandra @ Pastel Goth Fair 2015

Respect

Respect

I have more respect for a man who lets me know where he stands, even if he’s wrong. Than the one who comes up like an angel and is nothing but a devil.

Malcolm X

Credits:

Skin: Pumens– Manuela TMP mesh head applier

Body: Maitreya– Lara Mesh Body

Eyes: IKON– Sovereign eyes in glass

Hair: LeLutka– Dakota

Dress: Wicca’s Wardrobe- Breyanna dress w/ arm bracers @ Penumbra Fashion Week

Shoes: Essenz- Tennessee @ Geeks’n’Nerds

Ruffle My Feathers

Ruffle My Feathers

Pillow fights and cuddles. Tears and laughter. Frowns and smiles. Fights and make up. Arguments and agreements. Loneliness and togetherness. Ups and downs. Bad days and good days. We have been through all this but never thought of giving up on each other. Our life is full of sugar and spice ….. fire and ice.. BUT everything nice. We have been through the best and the worst but no matter what comes up for us for the rest of our life we are madly, deeply and crazily in love with each other. We are a die hard romantic couple….we are friends…we are lovers..we are best buddies.. We are twin flames…..Yes we are soul mates…..Aarti Khurana

Credits:

Skin: Pumens– Manuela TMP mesh head applier

Body: Maitreya– Lara Mesh Body

Eyes: IKON– Sovereign eyes in glass

Hair: Magika– Empty Gold

Outfit: CandyDoll- Tamiko Pajamas in Aqua @ Kustom9

Dreaming in Dead Dollz

Dreaming in Dead Dollz

Happiness in this world, when it comes, comes incidentally. Make it the object of pursuit, and it leads us a wild-goose chase, and is never attained. Follow some other object, and very possibly we may find that we have caught happiness without dreaming of it.

Nathaniel Hawthorne

Read more at http://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/keywords/dreaming.html#aoMpQ5D5jCcvO0a2.99

Credits:

Skin: Pumens– Manuela TMP mesh head applier

Body: Maitreya– Lara Mesh Body

Eyes: IKON– Sovereign eyes in glass

Hair: TRUTH– Ryleigh

Outfit: Dead Dollz- Minuet @ We ❤ RP

Loving is hard to do

Loving is hard to do

You know you love someone when hugging them makes the whole world fade away, even on your worse days

Credits:

Skin: Pumens– Manuela TMP mesh head applier @ Shiny Shabby

Body: Maitreya– Lara Mesh Body

Eyes: IKON– Sovereign eyes in glass

Hair: TRUTH– Maren

Shirt: ISON- Lace crop top in gray @ Collabor88

Skirt: Maitreya– dark leather black mini skirt

Shoes: Essenz- Stockholm @ The Seasons Story