Do I leave it all behind?

Do I leave it all behind?

The more you know yourself, the more patience you have for what you see in others.

– Erik Erikson
The quote above is probably the most confusing thing to me. I know myself… but I have little patience for others. I think what bothers me the most is seeing people at their lowest. You know they lie and you know they do things that are so unlike the behavior that you usually see and you want to say “Hey what are you doing? Why are you doing this?”. When you do say something or draw attention to their fault, they lash back out. Maybe this is human nature.. but it bothers me. It bothers me to know and see these types of things go on. I really wish I could answer this for myself. Have seen this behavior several times over several people in the last few weeks and it is starting to get hard to hold my tongue. I know it is the adult thing to do to let things slide. I just always see that if I didn’t care then yeah I would be fine with someone acting way out of character. I think the amount  of things I have let slide or not commented on is mounting until I eventually explode or I just walk away from everything. We will see. TOOTLES


Skin: Pumens– Manuela TMP mesh head applier @ Shiny Shabby

Body: Maitreya– Lara Mesh Body

Eyes: IKON– Sovereign eyes in glass

Hair: TRUTH– Ximena

Jewelry: Maxi Gossamer- Celestine Heart set @ Uber

Top: Addams- Thelma Wool Cardigan w/ turtleneck @ Uber

Bottoms: Addams- Electra Denim shorts in white @ Uber

Shoes: Essenz- Alabama @ My Attic


What You See

What you see is what you get

I was planning on taking a small break from blogging, but I think I was just kidding myself. I think I have posted pretty much every day for the last month and I am really needing a break from the constant posts, so I am going to just be posting every other day now for a little bit till I am caught up. I took yesterday to set up my garden in SecondLife. This is just a photo of me lounging, but I felt I needed to show off a few of the new items out. My new Stella appliers which I am in LOVE with the freckles, the new FINESMITH group gift, and the new Essenz heels which are so sexy with the sheer parts that I had to buy every color there. Just a small photo to show I haven’t forgotten about all of you, but I have been busy 🙂 Photos of the place will be coming I promise! TOOTLES


Head: LeLutka– Stella mesh head

Body: Maitreya– Lara Mesh Body

Stella Applier: Glam Affair– Avril applier in Jamaica @ Uber

Hair: Catwa– Aimee hair

Necklace: FINESMITH– Big necklace in cream *group gift*

Dress: Baiastice– Claudette dress in wine

Shoes: Essenz- Sicily (high slink or maitreya add on) @ My Attic at the Deck

Couch: Cheeky Pea– Priyanka Daybed

Kicks Back and Relaxes

Not every day that I can officially say someone made a shoe for ME! If you have not seen my Pintrest account yet… I have a nice collection of things that I just love. RL and SL are both listed and it is more like a wish list for stuff I wish I owned in RL. I also have a collection of other bloggers there that have posted and I just fell in love with their items. Well… I have been bugging Senzation for a while… telling her I have all these shoe ideas and she is just like… yeah yeah Tess looks nice! Well low and behold I HAVE A SHOE FROM MY PINTREST BOARD!!! Yes I am shouting it because I am so flipping excited. I pinned a shoe like this and she made it 🙂 If I see you around SL and I start screaming at you that you are wearing my shoe, I promise I am just really excited to see you in these shoes. These shoes are named Belize and you can find these gorgeous beauties at the current round of My Attic which ends January 31st. There are 6 different colors for you, but I picked my favorite for this photo! It is also an add on for Slink mid feet. Also, I want to add that Essenz is having a sale in her mainstore till February 2nd. All single color shoes are 50% off and all fatpacks are 30% off. NEW SHOES!!!! Alright…. I am done being excited about my new shoes for the next five minutes, I promise…. TOOTLES!