Waiting on a Friday

Waiting on a Friday

I have waited all week to be able to finally relax and here I am! What a crazy week it has been. I started a new job in RL. Not really new but more like a job I haven’t done in a while since I moved away from my hometown. It has been extremely busy not to mention taking college classes and trying to still spend time with my son. It is safe to say that I am completely exhausted. I need to apologize to a few people who I have not been around to blog for. I am sorry!! I know RL comes first and I am in the process of taking care of these things. I need two of me which would be a huge help. One to write my research papers for college and another to work and be a mom. Things would be easier. Hope everyone had a great week! I think I will spend the day shopping before more homework. TOOTLES!


Skin: Lara Hurley– Fae

Body: Maitreya– Lara Mesh Body

Head: TheMeshProject– Classic deluxe head

Hair: Mithral Apothecary- Alkaline in browns @ Collabor88

Shirt: Emery– Destiny sleeveless shirt

Shorts: JesyDream– Mini shorts denim

Shoes: Essenz- Burssels (slink flat feet) @ L’accessoires

Chairs: {what next}–  Winter Harvest Chair

It Melted

AHHH…. Someone quick HELP!!! My snowman is melting and not really sure why. It’s still fridged outside and I am ready for this to be over… what about yall? anyway… I am writing today because it is my A-day. Sometimes when I tell people this they look at me funny and then I have to explain this is my adoption day. The day my parents took me home for the first time. I have to say, I get the most weird looks even with my funny name for it. No, I am not sensitive about being adopted… my parents have always taught me that it means I am extra special. They found me after many many years of looking. Yes, I am open and excited about this day because it is special to me. No telling where I would be or who I would have become without my parents influence on me. I might not know the meaning of a melted snowman might mean. Loads of fun to be had building it that might not have come if I hadn’t of been adopted. I was lucky… and many are not. I am currently going to school for social work to help change this fact and I am sure most have heard me complain about how busy school is and it will only get worse as I enter the majority of my social work classes. I am actually humbled and nervous about my future career. I do hope it will make a difference with the fact that I have been where they are. Only time will tell! I just want to show them that even though they may stand alone like I am alone in this photo, they are never really alone. There is my “let you into my life” moment for the month. Just about enough for now. I can’t overload yall! TOOTLES


Shoes- Essenz- Montreal @ L’accessoires

Snowman- Image Essentials- It Melted (actually has a pose but I used it as a background piece) @ Winter Trend 2014

Good to be Back

I am back!!! I had a nice lovely break from SL for a trip home to see my family and my in laws and I am actually glad it is over. Anyone who spends an extended period visiting family is always glad to see it come to an end and get back to the way things usually are. Visiting everyone is just exhausting! I am coming back to two new events starting on the 5th that I have to show you so I wanted to do a quick snap of this dress by D-style which will be available at Winter Trends 2014. I also came back just in time to hit up the last black friday sales and to find out that TRUTH will be having an in world store sale of 50% off till December 15th! So many good things going on in SL lately and I am glad to be coming back at just the right time. During my away time I have had a lot of time to think about my future in SL and I will be happy to share that with you in a few weeks when things settle down a little. So for my quick welcome home and then back to business… it is great to be back 🙂 TOOTLES


Skin– Lara Hurley- Fae in natural dark

Eyes– {SONG}- Yuki Ice eyes

Hair– TRUTH– Aida (50% off in world store till Dec 15th)

Dress–  D-Style- Baggy knit sweater @ Winter Trend 2014

Shoes– Essenz- Houston boots @ L’accessoires till Dec 8th



When you feel depressed, confused or hurt, don’t worry. Stand in front of a mirror, you will find the best one to solve your problem. TRUST YOURSELF!” – unknown author

We all go through those moments when we doubt our abilities and doubt if we are doing the right thing. I began a week of positive thinking on Tuesday (I hate beginning things on Mondays), and that is when the doubt hit me. I finally do not want to have a negative thought and all I was thinking was horrible things like “I am not good enough” or “Why did this or that happen.. is it something I did?” This is a huge struggle for me and those closer to me understand this. I am constantly going back and forth about what I should do and over analyzing everything and every step that I take. It is exhausting! lol The letting go this week has been extremely hard but I want to start trusting myself and my abilities to do what I enjoy and what I love. The take from is just to trust myself… trust that I have my best interest at heart and to expect the unexpected and embrace it. That’s all I have for the day 🙂 TOOTLES!


Skin– Lara Hurley- Fae in natural dark

Hair– Exile- Royal Command

Dress– DE. Boutique- AW14 Vixen dress in black @ Designers Showcase

Jewelry- [Modern.Couture] Jewelry- Avalon Earrings @ L’accessoires

Shoes– DE. Boutique- AW14 Aisha Heels in black @ Designer Showcase

Pose– Purple Poses- Wall Poses

These Shoes Are Made For Walking

When you think about the middle of the month, what do you think about personally? What do you look forward to? In SL, I would have to say events are something that I look forward to each month and L’accessoires is one I count on every 15th to bring some lovely unique items. This month is no different as Essenz brings us these adorable Bali wedges. You can find them in several different colors to match your latest summer outfit. These are a Slink high feet add on shoe so please make sure you have the high feet! Ya know, just go purchase all the slink feet so you don’t have to worry about that when you buy shoes! These heels will be available at L’accessoires till July 8th. You have a little time…. but don’t forget! TOOTLES

Romance at the Shops

Valentines Day is on Friday and I am in a bit of a mood. Not really an “I am going to wear hearts and all red” kinda mood. What do you think of when you think of romance? Does your heart begin to beat faster and you start writing a fake last name instead of your own? Do you think about just the first date jitters? Maybe those butterflies really are real after all! Sorry… yes I am going kind of random, but the point is that everyone has a different view on what they see as romantic. I am going old school… Lace, candles, and skin!

My outfit for this “mood” consists of the new release for this weeks round at the Slebrity Slection Street Sale. .::KL Couture::. has done it again with this slinky yet sexy Irma dress in white lace. To find the perfect accessories I went over to L’Accessoires and took a gamble playing on the Enfant Terrible gacha machine. I got super lucky and scored this rare gothic candle light dinner wings and gold candle light dinner necklace. There is so much to see there so you have to go yourself! Enjoy your shopping!!! TOOTLES