Rumor has it…

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Cough, Cough… sorry… just a tad in shock and it took my breath away for a minute. Some things you hear or see sometimes just makes you want to stop and wonder what happened to these people? There are many things that can cause gossip and people to go start spreading rumors. Have had my fair share recently and have read more than I care to off of my Facebook. You see someone out dancing or a sweet comment or something and people automatically assume that your with someone. What makes me so aggravated is when someone comes to me and asks questions about other peoples relationships like I am suppose to have some magic ball. When did it become ok to chat and assume things about other people because you saw some post that you think is suppose to mean something? I could probably go take a different cuddle photo with a different guy every day of the week and by the end it would be around that I was sleeping with all of them or cheating on one of them. It is completely ridiculous. My conclusion from this? Screw what everyone else thinks! The ones who will do this and try to spread things about people really have no life. You come to a virtual world to what? Make other people feel like crap? Well congratulations… it may work on some but this girl is so tired of it! Grow up… and learn to have a conversation that doesn’t include someone else business in it. Yes this is my rant for the week… You will hear more of this in my weekly reflection I am sure. You do know what “Assume” means right?

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Credits:

Skin– Glam Affair- Cleo in Jamaica

Eyes– IKON- Hope Eyes in Nymph

Hair– Clawtooth- Fade Into You in Dreamy Red

Dress– .:Glow Designs:.- Hanna Dress in Peach @ Cosmopolitan Sales Room

Jewelry- Zaara- Nizam necklace short in white

Shoes– Essenz- Philadelphia shoes @ Cosmopolitan Sales Room

Pose– Vestige- Female Model @ Cosmopolitan Sales Room

Change

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It is late at night as I am actually writing this so please bare with me. It has been roughly two months since my SL decided to flip on me. Everything switch and I had to sit back and reflect on who I was, who I am, and where I actually want to go here. I had to make hard choices and some of those choices were made for me without my input or even wanting things to change. I went from feeling great to an extreme low. My blog even suffered to the point where I didn’t even recognize why I was blogging anymore. It had become a routine. No effort was really put into writing anymore. I just stated what I was wearing and that was just about it. My friends probably couldn’t stand me. I had become somewhat unbearable and probably still am to an extent although I am so much better now than I was back then. All of the things that I didn’t like or understand are starting to come full circle. I am not going to say too much on the subject right now, but things are about to change. I am done doing things for other people and done caring what others may or may not like. This is me and this blog was started as sort of a journal and somewhere I completely lost that fact and I still lose it from time to time and get wrapped up on fairs and new releases and forget about the enjoyment of writing and venting in my own space. Honestly, most will probably not like my blog too much after this because its going to be very real… honest… and just more myself than caring about what others think. I have needed this for a while and have talked about it, but now its actually time to do it. Stay Tuned…. TOOTLES

Credits:

Skin– Glam Affair- Cleo in Jamaica

Body: Slink- Physique Mesh Body

Eyes– IKON- Hope Eyes in Nymph

Hair– Clawtooth- Boardwalk Breeze in Dreamy Red

Lingerie Blacklace– Courtney bra and panty in teal- NEW group gift (slink physique applier)

Shoes– Glow Designs- Marie Heels in Mocca @ Cosmopolitan Sales Room

Sex Appeal

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If you look around SL you will more than likely see women half naked running around saying how sexy they look and such. It is our mind set to wear these things in SL because more than likely you wont be able to wear it in RL without getting some very crazy looks. This week, sex appeal has been on my mind. I am VERY single in SL to the point where it is sad. I am honestly married to my blog which Is fine by me, but it can’t cuddle me and keep me warm either. I have been told I dress too conservative for SL. In order to attract a man I need to dress in something very sexy and lay it all out there. When did sexy become about how much skin you have to show? Why can’t smarts and confidence and being covered up be just as sexy as dressed in lingerie like above. I believe more than anything that sexy isn’t about what you wear but about the state of mind that you are in. Sexy is about loving yourself enough to respect yourself and not walk around half naked. I am certainly not downing those that choose to do this… but when I choose not to I expect the same kind of respect. Do not down someone for not being the normal or the ordinary. Just my two cents for the day… Everyone have a great week 🙂 TOOTLES

Credits:

Skin– Glam Affair- Cleo in Jamaica

Body: Slink- Physique Mesh Body

Eyes– IKON- Hope Eyes in Nymph

HairMagika– No *New*

Lingerie– chocolate atelier- Wendi in black @ Penumbra AW14

Shoes– Hilly Haalan Fashions- Lia Strass pumps black @ Cosmopolitan Sales Room

Pose– Sari-Sari- Relax Sits poses

Weekly Reflection

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I always like to sit and reflect on the week prior. There are always good and bad things that I try to learn from. Something bad this past week has been my way to over exaggerated things. Sometimes that might be good if I am working on a photo, but in my personal life I would prefer that not to happen. Sigh… something more to work on for the next week! My something good was that my friends and family threw me an early surprise rez day party! I was thrilled and completely in shock that they thought to do something like this. This would be my first rez day party in SL which means a lot to me to share it with those close. Of course sometimes SL and RL get in the way of enjoying things, but those people were certainly missed that night.

I have been asked before why I do a weekly reflection. Sometimes we all just need to look at things in smaller portions. If you see an improvement from one week to the next, then that is an improvement and something positive to look at. If we are constantly looking at our negatives over an extended period… then we may get a little discouraged. No one wants to feel discouraged or like they let themselves or others down. The little accomplishments mean something and eventually those will turn into larger accomplishments that you can be even more proud of.

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Now that I have given you my weekly review, I want to tell you about the weekly sale. 🙂 Hello Tuesday has arrived again… ya know its a weekly thing as well! The dress I am wearing is such a cute summer dress by M&M. There are other colors around so please take a look inside the store as well when you visit. The Hello Tuesdays just keep getting better and better as the year comes to an end. Also, Cosmopolitan Sales Room began a new round on Sunday. You can find some of your favorites there to include the Essenz Bali wedges I am wearing, the PerveTTe Rosary Tattoo around my neck, plus the Boho furniture from BananaN ( the stool includes poses). You really don’t want to miss this new round of Hello Tuesday and Cosmopolitan Sales Room. Also, keep watching because CSR is having a 2 year anniversary soon… goodies galore! TOOTLES

Credits:

Skin– Glam Affair- Cleo in Jamaica

Eyes– IKON- Hope Eyes in Nymph

Hair– CaTwA- Sandy Hair

Dress– M&M- Neri Dress in white @ Hello Tuesday

Jewelry- (Kunglers Extra)- Dita bracelet and Luna Earrings @ The Jewelry Fair 2014

Shoes– Essenz- Bali wedges (slink high add on) @ Cosmopolitan Sales Room 

Tattoo– *PerveTTe- My Rosary @ Cosmopolitan Sales Room

Pose– Eternal Dream- Trudi (pose below) @ Cosmopolitan Sales Room 

Furniture– BananaN- Boho cabinet and stools seat in 4 colors @ Cosmopolitan Sales Room

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Something To Cheer About

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Football season started this past weekend!!! I am so excited because this is my season to veg out on my couch and watch every game that I possibly can on my TV. I am a HUGE Alabama fan and I am super hyped about the new playoff system. Yes, most blogs are read by women… but I know quite a few women who are just as big of a football fan as I am. Any predictions this year? I predict I will be shopping when not watching football and there are some great finds going on. Cosmopolitan has pretty much everything you can want… and then L.Warwick has put out these fabulous flat durable shoes at Uber. Do not look at me strange if I start breaking out into a cheer in the middle of stores because I am just that excited… TOOTLES

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Credits:

Skin– .::WOW Skins::.- Eshe in Dark Tan w/appliers @ Cosmopolitan Sales Room

Eyes– [Buzz]- Crystal Eye in Ice

Hair– [RA]- Jane V2 @ Cosmopolitan Sales Room

Outfit and glasses– NS::- Sport Gym outfit (comes with sneakers and bag not pictured) @ Cosmopolitan Sales Room 

Shoes– [L.Warwick]- Sawtooth Flats in Slate @ UBER

Pose– {NanTra}- Cheer-ocracy @ Cosmopolitan Sales Room

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Forget Me Not

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With all the new events going on… it is very important not to forget the faithful events that happen every couple of weeks and week… like Cosmopolitan Sales Room and Hello Tuesday. All of the designers work hard for you to get you looking stylish for the latest season. Please do not forget to go today and grab these Hello Tuesday items and Cosmopolitan Sales Room just began a new round on Sunday so plenty of new items to check out. TOOTLES

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Credits:

Skin– Lara Hurley – Ivy in natural tan

Body: Slink- Physique Mesh Body

Eyes– IKON- Spectral Eyes in Nymph

Hair– ~*Damselfy*~- Tory in Browns @ Cosmopolitan Sales Room

Bikini– OSITO- Hibiscus Bikini in blue @ Hello Tuesday

Bracelet- Zaara- Nizam Choodiya bangles in silver and white

Shoes– Essenz- Tijuana (slink flat add on) @ Cosmopolitan Sales Room

Pose– Verocity- Harper Pose Set @ Hello Tuesday

Pouting on Tuesday

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This week seems to be the busiest I have been in a long while. I had to go to Baltimore yesterday for some things and wasn’t able to get my post together for Hello Tuesday until now, which is a little late. I will be going back again tomorrow for more things, but I should resume regular posting later on this week. For now, I couldn’t let you go around without knowing about these amazing deals at CSR plus the items that are available for today only for Hello Tuesday. Hope you find some time today to go shopping, because you are going to regret it if you don’t. TOOTLES! 

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Credits:

Skin– Lara Hurley – Ivy in natural tan

Body: Slink- Physique Mesh Body

Eyes– [Buzz]- Crystal Eyes in Ice

Hair– MINA- Femke with materials @ Cosmopolitan Sales Room

Dress– Poute- Stroke Sheath in black and red @ Hello Tuesday

Jewelry– Baubles!- Rock Goddess Bangles @ Cosmopolitan Sales Room

Shoes– G&D The Italian Style- Kelly Wedge in Red @ Cosmopolitan Sales Room

Pose– Verocity- Carolina Pose Set @ Hello Tuesday

Lingerie Friday

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Long gone are the days i get to lay around in undies in RL… so now I am going to make one full day in SL for myself with nothing but some sexy lingerie. Watch out! If you see me walking around in a store in lingerie just overlook me please. It is SL after all! To start my one day a week ritual, I have chosen this sexy white Tendresse fleur set in white by chocolate atelier. You can pick this set up in black, pink, red, and white all at Cosmopolitan Sales Room. Enjoy your lingerie Friday! ❤ TOOTLES

Credits:

Skin– Lara Hurley – Ivy in natural tan

Eyes– IKON- Spectral Eyes in Nymph

HairTRUTH– Melita in Ginger

Lingerie– chocolate atelier- Tendresse fleur in white @ Cosmopolitan Sales Room

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The Thorn of Rose

8.18.18.1What’s in a name? That which we call a rose by any other name would smell as sweet. – William Shakespeare

Credits:

Skin– Lara Hurley – Ivy in natural tan

Eyes– [Buzz]- Crystal Eye in Ice

Hair– Magika- Meadow

Makeup- Clemmm- Charcoal fish masquerade and Lip Blush @ La Metallique Fair

Dress– Snowpaws- Sur dress @ Cosmopolitan Sales Room

Headpiece– Snowpaws- Bon Bon Ribbon Hat @ Cosmopolitan Sales Room

Jewelry- ALEGRIA- Caroline Onyx Pack @ La Metallique Fair

Shoes– EMPORIUM- Alanis Heels (slink high add on) @ Cosmopolitan Sales Room

 

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Bestie

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I am so lazy, but it takes the motivation of my friends and family to keep me going and Lizzie has been there this week to help me show even more items from Cosmopolitan Sales Room before the last day. The room ends tomorrow and then prepares for another round so you have to get in there fast to take advantage of these sales. Hope you enjoy your shopping! TOOTLES

Credits: On Tessa (left)

Skin– Lara Hurley – Ivy in natural tan

Body: Slink- Physique Mesh Body

Hair– MINA- Sophia Specials Pack @ Cosmopolitan Sales Room

Tank and Skirt– Missnoise Style- Cropped butterfly tank and high waist long grey skirt @ Cosmopolitan Sales Room

Shoes– .:Glow Designs:.- Lux Heels in Pink (high slink add on) @ Cosmopolitan Sales Room 

Credits: On Lizzie (right)

Skin– [PXL Creations]- Jade

Body: Slink- Physique Mesh Body

Hair– [elikatira]- Cassidy

Dress– *Aphrodisiac*- Simple Summer Dress in White @ Cosmopolitan Sales Room

Shoes– -SSW- – shib pumps (high slink add on) @ Cosmopolitan Sales Room

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