Focused on the TV

Focused on the TV

On the weekends you can find me sitting down in front of a TV. I would rather watch the tv instead of be on SL. Actually, I end up leaving SL on and I am mostly screaming at the tv because it is FOOTBALL SEASON! I watch every single game that comes on. If I miss it I have another tv on recording. Maybe that sounds a little crazy; however, I have been raised this way and it seems perfectly normal to me. I didn’t find out that this wasn’t the norm for most people until I moved north. I couldn’t understand why when you went out on the weekends that every tv wasn’t turned on football. That being said, I am currently writing this during halftime so I probably need to run. TOOTLES!

Credits:

Skin: Pumens– Lorraine TMP mesh head applier

Body: Maitreya– Lara Mesh Body

Eyes: Buzz– Bewitched eyes in ocean

Hair: Exile- Songbird @ Collabor88

Dress: ISON- Occult dress and jacket @ Collabor88

Shoes: CandyDoll- Arabella boots in nude @ Collabor88

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Escaping the Feeling

Escaping the Feeling

“I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.”

― Maya Angelou

Credits:

Skin: Pumens– Lorraine TMP mesh head applier

Body: Maitreya– Lara Mesh Body

Eyes: Buzz– Bewitched eyes in ocean

Hair: Little Bones- Spectre w/ hat @ Collabor88

Outfit: Dead Dollz- Autumn skirt and top @ Tres Chic

Shoes: Essenz- Lyon @ The Body Modification Expo

Pose: Purple Poses- Broom poses @ Collabor88

Bird: Half Deer- Raven black glitter @ Collabor88

Glamorous Feeling

Glamorous Feeling

“If you’re wearing lingerie that makes you feel glamorous, you’re halfway there to turning heads”

– Elle Macpherson

Credits:

Skin: Swallow– Roberta TMP head applier

Body: Maitreya– Lara Mesh Body

Eyes: Buzz– Bewitched eyes in ocean

Hair: Wasabi Pills- Lexis hair @ Uber

Lingerie: Dead Dollz- Victoria in pink @ Mesh Avenue Event 

Check out my sisters blog here for her styling… *Thanks Tempy for the photo*

Watching the Leaves Turn

Watching the Leaves Turn

l these lovely tokens September days are here, With summer’s best of weather And autumn’s best of cheer.

Helen Hunt Jackson

By al

Read more at http://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/keywords/autumn.html#YELxb9hjAPgRc9j4.99

Credits:

Skin: Pumens– Lorraine TMP mesh head applier

Body: Maitreya– Lara Mesh Body

Eyes: Buzz– Bewitched eyes in ocean

Hair: TRUTH– Heloisa

Top: Salt and Pepper- Laura Corsage @ We ❤ RP

Pants: Blueberry– Luna rolled cuff jeans in dark blue

Do Your Eyes Deceive you

Do Your Eyes Deceive you

If what you see by the eye doesn’t please you, then close your eyes and see from the heart. Because the heart can see beauty and love more than the eyes can ever wonder.

Credits:

Skin: Swallow– Roberta TMP head applier

Body: Maitreya– Lara Mesh Body

Eyes: Buzz– Bewitched eyes in ocean

Hair: Tableau Vivant- Upsidedown @ The Arcade

Shoes: Essenz- Lyon @ The Body Modification Expo

Take Advantage of the Light

Take Advantage of the Light

We all have worked outside or been doing something that needed and required light. When the sun begins to set and it becomes hard to see, we must quit whatever it is that we are doing or turn on a light. What happen when that light is no longer there? You stop.

This is a round about way to make a point. I promise the point is here somewhere. Hopefully it makes sense to more people than just myself. The light can be considered support. It can be considered a lot of things. When the light goes out on a person, this could be because others got tired of shining a light on you constantly without any support back. I started thinking about this concept for about the last month more than I probably should. A support was taken away from me just overnight and then you just have to stop. This would be a good reason I have stopped as of late. Without that light, I find it hard to be motivated. I find it hard to want to write like this. It is something I work through, but the question pushes on towards you.

Is there something you are doing or not doing that can cause you to lose your light. If you miss key support from someone or something would it throw things off for a while for you? For me, it wasn’t anything that I had done, but more of a choice from someone else to do something else. I look at my support for others and I wonder what would happen if I just stopped. I also wonder if maybe that support that I give takes away in some way from me being able to get back on track with myself. Would it be selfish if I just stopped it all for a while? I don’t really know, but what I do know is that a change is a must. Sometimes we have to be removed from the light to realize our darkest spots in order to heal from them. This way, maybe I can be my own source of light instead of relying on other things. TOOTLES

Credits:

Skin: Swallow– Roberta TMP head applier

Body: Maitreya– Lara Mesh Body

Eyes: Buzz– Bewitched eyes in ocean

Hair: TRUTH– Josette

Dress: Dead Dollz- O-Ren in red @ We ❤ RP

Pose: !bang- stands 530-529 @ We ❤ RP

I Workout

I Workout

Some may have noticed that I am not really around as much posting and blogging like I have been. This post is kind of fitting because I am getting fit at the gym. I go to a class 3 to 4 times a week. I am really working on myself in RL more than in SL and I have to say it is a nice change. I let things go more or less and it’s time I take back my life. I will probably post a blog once or maybe twice a week for now, but I just can’t commit to SL like i have previously. I am a little late showing some of the highlights at Uber, but I think they are well worth it. TOOTLES

Credits:

Skin: Swallow– Roberta TMP head applier

Body: Maitreya– Lara Mesh Body

Eyes: Buzz– Bewitched eyes in ocean

Hair: TRUTH– Anouk

Tank: Valentina E.- Blue Ice tank @ Uber

Pants: Valentina E.- Metallic Warmup pants in silver @ Uber

Shoes: CandyDoll- Lucy Wedges in white @ Uber

With the weather begins to change

When the weather begins to change

Hey, just stopping by after watching the first week of high school football kick off. I can now sit in my chair and relax on Friday, Saturday, and Sunday and watch football instead of the computer screen. I absolutely love football!

On another note, I wanted to let you all know that Essenz will be changing up a few things. She is working on the mainstore lately and will be adding something. You can purchase every color separate or you can purchase each individual fatpack like normal. There will also be a complete fatpack of all 12 colors available. I kind of want to beg her for a fall fatpack this year. Who is with me? lol Also, Bologna in olive gray is available as a gift for group VIP members. The group is only 350L to join. I know some people hate to pay for groups, but you get a ton of free shoes and she is SOOO generous. It is completely worth it. GO SHOP! TOOTLES

Credits:

Skin: Swallow– Roberta TMP head applier

Body: Maitreya– Lara Mesh Body

Eyes: Buzz– Bewitched eyes in ocean

Hair: Magika– Cardigan

Hat: Wicca’s Wardrobe- Emilia hat @ FAD

Jewelry: (Yummy)– Pearl and Diamond set

Dress: Wicca’s Wardrobe- Edith dress @ FAD

Shoes: Essenz– Bologna

What Happens Behind Closed Doors Never Stays There

What happens behind closed doors never stays there

What I am about to say has absolutely nothing to do with the photo or what I am blogging. I got curious about a few things today. First, I was looking around on my Facebook and saw that quite a few people were posting about this Ashley Madison list that has been published. This list contains the names of men and women who signed up to cheat on their spouses. I kind of feel like this ties in with the post I did just a few days ago about married people in SL. How do these two tie into each other?

Like I said, I got curious and decided to check and see if there was someone that I knew on that list. Thankfully my spouse wasn’t on it; however, I did find a few names of people that I know on this list. The emotions immediately started to flood of embarrassment for the families of the ones on this list. I mean this has been published millions of times and there is no telling how many people have read it. The other kicker is that the number one state that had the highest amount of cheaters is Alabama. This happens to be where I am from. I kind of feel like this is the case because people that I know in the south are more inclined to stay with their spouse from religious reasons than to do what is best and just end things in a divorce. Is this an excuse for the names being on the list? NO! I felt for the kids who will see their parents names on this list in the future. Some things go away and others tend to linger a little longer and I see that this might be one of those times where it doesn’t just pass with the next news story.

The next main thought was how is this list really any different from SL. What would happen if a list of people who cheated in SL and lied came out to the public. OUCH! Now I am not saying that this will happen or that we should all be terrified, but it was one of my main thoughts. Probably because I have heard so many opinions in the last few days about married people in SL. My first post had nothing to do with relationships that were sexual in SL, but I did have a few people who tried to spin it this way. Either they didn’t read what I actually wrote or they wanted to interpret things to their liking. Either way, something that I learned is that no matter what you say or do in SL people will always try to accuse you of doing wrong or lying. I can tell you the truth till I am blue in the face, but because someone once did lied to them then everyone who is like that person is a liar as well. The common factor you ask? We could both be married in RL. The simple fact is that with the events of this list, I think that we all should do a little bit of self reflection and realize that no one is perfect and even though your name isn’t on this Ashley Madison site, you could have done something equally as wrong at some point. It may not even be related to cheating in this way, but who are we to throw sticks and stones at others? Just a few thoughts and I hope this will make some stop and think about posting and sharing this list. TOOTLES

Credits:

Skin: Swallow– Roberta TMP head applier

Body: Maitreya– Lara Mesh Body

Eyes: Buzz– Bewitched eyes in ocean

Hair: TRUTH– Randa

Dress and headpiece: Salt and Pepper- Audrey @ Vintage and Cool Fair 2015

What Business is it of yours?

What business is it of yours?

In the last 2 months I have seen more and more people talking about other peoples reasons for being in SL and why they do not understand it. I just wanted to take a moment to touch on this topic because I believe my answer might help quite a lot of people. The most I hear is why do married people in RL get on SL. The assumption that married people cannot log into SL for a release of creativity or for more than just pixel sex is a little closed minded. When I see people ask this question the comments always turn to relationships and sex. I was then told why can’t I just find something creative to do in RL instead of SL. I then try to open up the conversation and the minds of those close minded people, but I fear that this does nothing so I am going to go at this a different way.

If you are curious why married people come into SL and start relationships or have sex or anything other than what you might understand… then just mind your own business! I am all for trying to understand other people, but these questions go way past understand and begin to insult those that you do not understand. A wise person once told me a statement and I believe it to be just as true then as it is in this situation. “You do you and the rest can take care of themselves”. Basically don’t worry about what everyone else is doing. If you don’t understand it then do not hang around or fool around with people who are married in RL. Pretty simple I would think? I believe that I have a right to express myself in a way that I like and that way is photography and blogging in SL. If you don’t like the fact that I am married then by all means unfollow me. I guarantee that it really makes no difference to me either way because your opinion does not effect the way that I do what I enjoy. For those who do mind their own business please feel free to join me in minding mine 🙂 TOOTLES

Credits:

Skin: Swallow– Roberta TMP head applier

Body: Maitreya– Lara Mesh Body

Eyes: Buzz– Bewitched eyes in ocean

Hair: TRUTH– Priya

Necklace: Cae– Marrakech

Dress: Dead Dollz-  Astra in white (maitreya fitted mesh) @ Vintage and Cool Fair 2015

Shoes: Essenz- Boca Raton @ Festival of Sin II