It is Tuesday and of course this means my weekly reflection and Hello Tuesday items. This would only be my second weekly reflection that I have posted, but I have them every week and just never thought to write it out as such. I was asked this past week by a friend why I choose to do my reflections on Tuesday and that it really should be on a Friday at the end of a week. When did a week end on Friday? Maybe the work week, but a bloggers work is never done and my weeks end on Sundays personally. I then think about everything on Monday and write about it on Tuesdays, which is what you see here. This past week has been kind of crazy. My RL college work has picked up and the next 3 weeks are going to be crazy. I will refrain from killing you on the details in the next few weeks. In SL, things have been busy. Penumbra AW14 wrapped up, but you can still go and pick up items in world at the sim if you choose to. I have also been sitting back and observing some very disturbing behavior between people who I would have never expected. I also saw some comments of people trying to diffuse situations and calm things and honestly put things into perspective. I wanted to share the little bit that I took from it all…. and maybe this might help someone who reads this. Second Life is a game. Yes, there are real feelings behind actions, but in the end, you can turn off the computer and go do what you need to in Real Life. What happens in SL more than likely will not affect what happens to you in RL, and if you let others opinions of you affect your RL then you need a reality check. What someones opinion of you is in SL does NOT matter in the grand scale of things. I am not saying that you shouldn’t be hurt by things that happen in a virtual world, because I myself have been hurt pretty badly no matter how much I tell myself that opinions don’t matter. It is just one more step in the process of living with your SL in a healthy way instead of letting it consume and take over who you are in RL.
Now on to the clothing…. For Hello Tuesday this week I am wearing the Fiore Suspender full outfit by Hilly Haalan. The only thing not in this photo is an adorable clutch that comes with the outfit, but I am not one for purses in either life. This outfit is a great fit and made so well. Every detail is there and really makes the outfit to me. The pose I am using is from the Tasha pose pack also available by Verocity at Hello Tuesday. Also, Truth has some new hair out!!! I am wearing the new Shae hairstyle which is basically a messy braid… but so freaking adorable! I like the lose braids like this more I think. Personal choice 🙂 Have a great rest of your week and happy shopping! TOOTLES
Skin– Glam Affair- Cleo in Jamaica
Eyes– IKON- Hope Eyes in Nymph
Hair– TRUTH– Shae
Outfit– Hilly Haalan- Fiore Suspender Pants Outfit ( includes high add on pumps, clutch, and spiked bowtie) @ Hello Tuesday
Pose– Verocity- Tasha Pose Set @ Hello Tuesday