Lights Will Guide You

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Just wanted to let everyone know that I will be taking a vacation from blogging from now until December 4th. I am going home!!!! Finally! I haven’t really seen my family for over a year and I am overjoyed and ready for a much needed time away. I just want to leave you with one of my favorite songs and let the light guide you! TOOTLES

“Fix You”
Coldplay

When you try your best, but you don’t succeed
When you get what you want, but not what you need
When you feel so tired, but you can’t sleep
Stuck in reverseAnd the tears come streaming down your face
When you lose something you can’t replace
When you love someone, but it goes to waste
Could it be worse?Lights will guide you home
And ignite your bones
And I will try to fix you

And high up above or down below
When you’re too in love to let it go
But if you never try you’ll never know
Just what you’re worth

Lights will guide you home
And ignite your bones
And I will try to fix you

Tears stream down your face
When you lose something you cannot replace
Tears stream down your face
And I…

Tears stream down your face
I promise you I will learn from my mistakes
Tears stream down your face
And I…

Lights will guide you home
And ignite your bones
And I will try to fix you

Credits:

Skin- Lara Hurley- Fae in natural dark

Eyes- IKON- Hope Eyes in Nymph

Hair- *~*Damselfly*~* – Kezia @ We <3 Roleplay

Dress-  Dead Dollz- Margaery in White @ We <3 Roleplay 

Headpiece- .Keystone.- Kenna in Gold @ We <3 Roleplay

Pose- .Picture This!- By Lantern Light w/ prop

I Assume It Is Fall

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 I feel like it is so appropriate at this moment to talk about expectations and assumptions. Everyone has them but not everyone voices them. When we add in social media of any sort, we finally have a place to put these down and say our piece on things. What I guess has been bothering me a lot lately is the constant assumptions by people because they have no idea of a situation. I honestly believe that there are three sides to every story and the facts become nothing but a screwed view of what they believe happened on their end. The assumption that everyone should be completely perfect. It is “ok” for others to make mistakes until it has to do with yourself and then everyone  should just be perfect. The guilty comments start flooding in like the “How could you” one which I have hear people say frequently. I am guilty of this one myself. It is only “ok” for others to make a mistake when you can easily walk away from a situation and have no guilt or shame yourself. The real kicker is when people chime in with their two cents. Every situation is different… every reason is different… how can we possibly give “advice” or comments on a situation that you can’t possibly understand unless you are present yourself? This is something I have struggled with, because its very natural to give an opinion. That is what it is right? Then… if that is true let’s turn the situation around and make the person you’re talking about be your best friend. Then it is a different situation right? You may have the same opinion, but because there are some extra things you now know or you didn’t know then the opinion will come out as some kind of support for the person you care for. The take from? Stop assuming everything and just ask someone or be direct and let us all stop talking about others behind their backs. If you have something to say then just say it! I am going to say that I would rather go shopping at some of these great places than worry about what your assumptions are of me. Shopping therapy at its best! TOOTLES

 Her Credits:

Hair- Lamb.- Pandora ginger pack

Jacket w/ shirt- American Bazaar- West Coat Marine with undershirt hud @ Sad November

Jeans- [Cynful]- Skinny jeans in medium blue

Shoes- REIGN.- Not Your Momma’s Knit Boots (group gift)

His Credits: 

Shirt- V-Spot Seattle Sweater in purple @ Sad November

Pants- V-Spot Casual Cords in brown @ Sad November

Hat- V-Spot- Worn Velvet Hat and Scarf in navy (NEW 99L)

Watch- [MANDALA] Billionaire – Simple Leather Black

Shoes- Horeenbeek- Heritage Boots Burgundy

Girly Night

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Girly weekends at home are a myth. Who actually gets to veg out like this? Certainly not myself or the cupcake would be replaced with my two year old and the TV would have some kind of cartoon movie. Probably Jungle Book because that is his favorite. I am not complaining because I love the move, but after the 4th time it plays in a day it can get a little old. I tried to change it out with maybe Nemo or even put on his favorite TV show Bubble Guppies, but sadly it was a no go. I could only virtually set up a little corner for just me and my sweet tooth. Stopping for a quick reminder to visit the Kawaii vs. Creepy Gacha Event before it is over! Singssss “Girls just wanna have funnnnn” as she goes back to her regularly scheduled program…  TOOTLES

Credits:

Skin- Lara Hurley- Fae in natural dark

Eyes- IKON- Hope Eyes in Nymph

Hair- Ayashi- Lola hair @ Kawaii vs. Creepy Gacha Event

Full Outfit- .:RD Style:.- Mayumi outfit @ Kawaii vs. Creepy Gacha Event

Animal on Head- [ S H O C K ]- Funny Octopus Sophie #2 Rare @ Kawaii vs. Creepy Gacha Event

Princess stuffed toy- BananaN- Princess Rare @ Kawaii vs. Creepy Gacha Event

Television- [:: JesyDream::]- Kawaii TV Pink Rare @ Kawaii vs. Creepy Gacha Event

Cupcake- -La Boutique- – Cuppycake Plus MarmolChocolat Rare @ Kawaii vs. Creepy Gacha Event

Food on floor- [Organica]-  Late night munchies (strawberry ice cream and pretzels)

Topiary- Sway’s Mainstore- candy topiary

Chair- [Organica]- Belvedere Leather armchair in candy green

Picture- [Fetch]- Sweet as candy sign

Trust

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When you feel depressed, confused or hurt, don’t worry. Stand in front of a mirror, you will find the best one to solve your problem. TRUST YOURSELF!” – unknown author

We all go through those moments when we doubt our abilities and doubt if we are doing the right thing. I began a week of positive thinking on Tuesday (I hate beginning things on Mondays), and that is when the doubt hit me. I finally do not want to have a negative thought and all I was thinking was horrible things like “I am not good enough” or “Why did this or that happen.. is it something I did?” This is a huge struggle for me and those closer to me understand this. I am constantly going back and forth about what I should do and over analyzing everything and every step that I take. It is exhausting! lol The letting go this week has been extremely hard but I want to start trusting myself and my abilities to do what I enjoy and what I love. The take from is just to trust myself… trust that I have my best interest at heart and to expect the unexpected and embrace it. That’s all I have for the day :) TOOTLES!

Credits:

Skin- Lara Hurley- Fae in natural dark

Hair- Exile- Royal Command

Dress- DE. Boutique- AW14 Vixen dress in black @ Designers Showcase

Jewelry- [Modern.Couture] Jewelry- Avalon Earrings @ L’accessoires

Shoes- DE. Boutique- AW14 Aisha Heels in black @ Designer Showcase

Pose- Purple Poses- Wall Poses

Halloween Wishes for You

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Halloween Wishes

Since this is the time for goblins and bats,
Halloween spirits, ghosts and cats,
Weird-happenings and witches brew,
These are the things I wish for you.

May the only spirit you chance to meet,
Be the spirit of love and warm friends sweet.
May the tricks that you are asked to do,
Be a trick to help you gain a friend or two.

So, by tomorrow, pick three friends sweet,
And give them all a Halloween treat.
You only have one day, so hurry!
Leave a treat on the doorstep, then flee in a hurry!

Credits:

Skin- Lara Hurley- Fae in natural dark

Eyes- IKON- Hope Eyes in Nymph

Makeup- Lovely Disarray- Dead of Night

Hair- +Spellbound+- Gwendalynn w/crown

Dress- .::Dead Dollz::.- Spiderweb Gown (Halloween group gift)

Pose- Purple Poses- Dana pose pack

Derby Mom

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For some, Halloween festivities begins tonight. Tonight, I will dress my kid up as a dinosaur and drag him from door to door while he screams RAWR at everyone. He has been practicing this all morning which I find both adorable and extremely annoying when a headache finally sets in. The candy induced coma he will have tonight will be loads of fun and something I am sure I will regret later. You only have one day to be completely crazy in a costume so we are living it up tonight. I will be dressed as “MOM”… but in SL I am currently bat roller girl! Watch out cause I will be skating to your house tonight I am sure. Everyone have a fabulous day! TOOTLES

Credits:

Skin- Lara Hurley- Fae in natural dark

Eyes- IKON- Hope Eyes in Nymph

Hair- TRUTH- Bijou

Outfit- (Poisoned Diamond)- Bat Derby outfit with shoes @ The Halloween Fair

Dark Angel

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Day two of my positive attitude… not too bad! lol… well I honestly think people are trying my patience, but so far complete success! At least I think so! Again today I am picking a very dark angel feel from Glitzz, which is available at The Halloween Fair. Between my sister and I, I am certainly the darker more naughty one… not to say Temp isn’t naughty of course.. *cough*! She is always made of gold and there for every person that she can be and puts others ahead of herself. I always look to be more like her. I may throw in a brighter outfit this week… but I will take my place as the darker sister and be the dark angel for today :) This outfit does come with all appliers. Every applier I can even think of! I am wearing the Slink Physique here and it comes with an applier for that plus the Belleza and Lena bodies. You can find your additional lola and booties appliers as well. So many choices it was hard for me to decide which to wear to take the photo in. Regardless… great outfit… great shoes… great hair… and a haunted location to go with it! Hope you enjoy your day! TOOTLES

Credits:

Skin- Lara Hurley- Fae in natural dark

Eyes- IKON- Hope Eyes in Nymph

Hair- *booN- gathered hairbase with SCO052 hair addition

Outfit- [Glitzz]- Black Empire outfit with ALL appliers @ The Halloween Fair

Shoes- Glow Designs- Chained pumps in Ultraviolet @ Designer Circle

Sim: Masoma County- Haunted Halloween Sim

note: The shoes actually are a purple tone, but with the windowlight that I used, it came out looking more blue.